As a parent of an entomophobic child, you might be at a loss of what your role is. Should you be tough on your child? Should you nurture them? What is the best approach? The short answer is that it varies from child to child. You as a parent know best at how your child responds. That being said, whether your child is incredibly tough, or very sensitive, when dealing with anxiety, there are a few key rules.
1. Never make this seem like your child’s fault
Your child has little control over this. It is not something that you can just “get over” or “suck up”. Anxiety is very real and can take on a life of its own if it is not properly treated but your child will make no progress if they are made to feel like it is their fault.
2. Remain calm yourself, too
Your child looks up to you. Children can sense fear in adults, much like a dog. As a parent it is imperative that you are strong for your child. When you see a bug that might scare you, too, do you best to relax. Trust that your child will be okay and get the help that they need. Having a calming presence will do wonders for both your child and you!
3. Don’t shy from professional help
Oftentimes, your child’s entomophobia will extend beyond your realm of knowledge and resources. That is when it is time to seek professional help. There is nothing wrong with this whatsoever. If anything, it is actually a very admirable thing to put your faith in somebody else’s hands and trust that they will help take care of your child. Below are some ideas of resources to help your child:
-Pediatricians
-Psychologists/Counselors
-Psychiatrists (can prescribe medicine)
-Mental Health Clinics (like urgent care but for children)
-Teachers/School Psychologists
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